“Every loving relationship requires a deeper understanding of its unique hidden policy for fulfillment to occur with one another.”
The human condition, namely navigating with our heart and mind can be challenging. Even more challenging than the individual human condition can be our loving relationship. This is because our loving relationship is where our personality with all of its wounds and defenses, family history, past relationships and experiences, and our deepest fears are brought to the surface. Even with this human challenge, we know deep down, instinctively, that love is where our deepest happiness lies.
The longest-running study on happiness, the 80+ year Harvard study on adult development shows very clearly that a loving partner, and close connected relationships with family and friends and community is the key to our happiness and also our longevity.
Loving relationships work best when both couples are working to become whole themselves and want to bring this journey toward wholeness and happiness to each other. At the same time life has its difficulties, so at times, a loving relationship will require giving unselfishly to support the other. It is indeed these deeds or acts of authentic giving love that really build trust that we are truly cared for by another person.
Couples coaching or relationship coaching is not therapy or counseling, but it does have a therapeutic aspect to it, because healthy relationships are themselves therapeutic by nature. However, coaching with us is about moving forward and working to build a fulfilling, enjoyable and satisfying relationship. We help couples to become clear on what they need to emotionally regulate, and their personal values, goals and vision. Although there are similarities with couples, these aspects of relationships are unique to the couple, because for the openness of love to flow we cannot control one another, we can only love and remain open to help another grow. This is why a loving relationship makes us feel so alive, because it is at its core risky, and so activates and engages our heart.
If you are facing challenges, or wanting to uncover what is going on beneath the surface of your relationship and are willing to work at it, we can help you.
Schedule an inexpensive 30-minute Quick Analysis for just $97 before booking a face to face session if you want to see if we are right for you.