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Dr. James Davies: The Origins of the DSM – A Critical Examination

The DSM is currently used by most mental health professionals in the USA, but internationally influential and used by: psychiatrists, psychologists, psychotherapists, counselors, therapists and clinicians as a guide to shape modern psychiatry and psychology.

Dr. James Davies, a psychotherapist, social anthropologist, and author, examines how the DSM evolved not purely as a scientific document, but through political, institutional, and economic forces that continue to influence mental health practices today.

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Decision-Making

In our daily life, we are faced with various situations where we need to make choices. While some choices can be easy and quick, some of them can be risky and difficult. For example, when one has to choose an appropriate career path or decide about the right time to start a family, it requires a deep level of thought. These kinds of decisions are life-changing and shape the future of the individual.

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Screen Time & Self-Regulation

Life in 2020 due to the pandemic shifted to computer, tablet, and phone screens. With electronic screens literally becoming our windows to the world for the majority of us. The amount of time we spent on our devices significantly increased with the changing world, and this happened for children too.

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The Science of Emotions - in honor of Jaak Panksepp

I was extremely fortunate to have studied under Jaak Panksepp before he sadly passed at just 74. Way too young to leave to make the journey to heaven, as he had so much to give. Every person who unfortunately develops Cancer from every race, religion or creed must be provided with the best help we can humanly possibly provide, and the fields of allopathic medicine and lifestyle medicine must work together better on preventing and reversing Cancer, so people are not lost to this horrendous disease.

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Love Making & an Enjoyable Sex Life

In the last 10-years with the rise in cost of living I have seen first-hand how many couples and families are struggling to plan quality time together. Economic instability due to the pace of accelerated change with AI and technological advances is disrupting every industry. This is causing uncertainty, pressure, and stress on most couples and families.

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The Importance of Presence in a Loving Relationship

Presence is a vital component of a loving relationship. To be able to foster a deeper connection and greater intimacy, we need to be present in our body and mentally attentive to the needs of the relationship in the moment.

To be skilled at presence, we need to develop body intelligence, by working to cultivate awareness and connection with our physical self.

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Universal Laws

Universal Laws or Universal Truths are simply truths that give an individual permission to see the greatness within themselves, to appreciate their brilliance, to rise above mediocrity (the norm) and to know they can achieve whatever they want to achieve. Law of Service: As you honor, respect and love your own individuality, so you honor, respect and love the individuality of others. “The more I love myself, the more I can love/service others.” Law of Equality: Your true needs, wants, desires, hopes, dreams, wishes and their fulfillment are as important as those of any other soul in existence. “In The…

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Love, Lust and Attraction

Why do we fall in love with a significant other? It is probably one of the most sought after answers for human-beings. What creates the spark, the lust, the connection, the attraction or the experience of falling in love with another? Love Begins to Flow in the Heart When people fall in love, they often experience a sudden rise in their heartbeat. Scientific research on the subject shows that love dramatically affects the brain after the heart has been stimulated. Three chemicals get released that rush to the brain which cause the exciting or euphoric connection and changes we experience:…

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Eating Food: An Internal Massage

Ever wondered why you go for ice cream or yogurt, or a big meal when you are stressed? Are we craving touch and trying to replace human touch with “inner touch” by eating food? The inside of your body is stimulated by eating food, in a similar way to how your skin is stimulated by human touch. This is because your digestive system: esophagus, stomach, gastrointestinal system and bowels are in essence an inward continuation of your skin. Your skin is rich with nerves, but so is your gastrointestinal system. The enteric nervous system is often referred to as our…

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Exercise Daily to Prevent or Reverse Depression and to Build Resilience & Optimism

Understanding Depression Many people have described depression as a black curtain of despair coming down over their lives. Depressed people lose their ability to concentrate and have little to no energy most of the time. They become increasingly more irritable and often say to other people they are ‘feeling low or down’.

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