Loving Relationship Work and Building a Future Together
The quality of love in your loving relationship will determine much of your happiness in life. But too often in a loving relationship couples experience disappointment, confusion, reactivity and unpleasant feelings that create difficulties in their loving relationship that seem unresolvable.
The five main areas we focus on with couples are:
What Works in Love and Loving Communication
Abilities to Build Connection & Respect
Building a Lifelong Sexually Fulfilling, Loving Relationship
Couples Talk Money & Financial Security Family Planning
Planning a Great Life Together as a Couple, as Parents with Children
This is usually all couples need from us, but we are also completely open to your needs even if you only choose one session with us.
Session Fees & Options to Work with Us:
OPTION 1
$250 for a face-to-face or Zoom 1.5-hour couples session for the public. We recommend one session every 3-4 weeks (we suggest the weekly session model is outdated for couples sessions).
OPTION 2
$600 for a face-to-face 3-hour couples session. This is for couples who want to, or need to work with greater interventional intensity. These sessions often provide faster breakthroughs and results but can be emotionally demanding.
OPTION 3
$400 60-min Supervision session for Couples Therapists, Couples Counselors, Marriage Counselors, Therapists, Counselors, Psychologists, Psychotherapists, Coaches and other professionals who want to be more skilled in working with couples.
OPTION 4
Noteworthy public, celebrity or high-profile clients who require our undivided attention, home visit sessions, as well as us to travel Nationally or Internationally, please contact us to discuss your situation in complete privacy.
Making Payments
Sessions can be paid via Zelle, Venmo, Paypal or Cash.
All sessions are private and in strict confidentiality. For celebrity, high-profile or noteworthy public figures, we are happy to sign a non-disclosure agreement.
Confidentiality
Loving, romantic relationships go through stages. These stages require different awareness and skills but they also provide couples with unique opportunities for development and growth. However, too often couples struggle to navigate these stages and their interpersonal dynamic with their partner, and this is where we can help. Sadly, many of the relationship books today provide theories and strategies and these, to a degree, can cause more difficulties as mental concepts will only deal with issues on a surface level. There is a huge, growing amount of education available online, but much of this too is inaccurate, for example “boundaries” in loving relationships will only work in some circumstances and not in most circumstances couples need to resolve.
In our 27+ years of experience, these are the five main areas couples need professional support and education in, so they can succeed in their loving relationship. At Loves Hidden Policy we use evidence-based approaches including Therapy, Counseling, Coaching, Affective Neuroscience, Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR), Eye Movement Integration (EMI) and Dyadic Development Psychotherapy (DDP) to help couples.
In a loving relationship as the heart opens and becomes more exposed and vulnerable this creates a challenge. We can escalate emotions and defensiveness, be hurt and we can hurt one another. However, this also means loving relationships can offer us more personal and spiritual growth than almost any other path we can take. Yet, we often expect loving relationships to be easy with the way Hollywood entertainment projects films about love for us. In reality, loving relationships that have deep love, meaning and purpose can bring up our deepest fears and unresolved hurt, as this is brought to the surface, this presents a unique opportunity for healing and a deeper connection.
Relationship Intelligence
Love points us in the direction that there are important areas to focus on to improve our loving relationship. If we grasp the opportunity to grow we can succeed with love, instead of resisting it. But this is not something that is taught in school, or usually by our parents, and so the gap between what people know and need is creating a problem in society. However, psychology, psychotherapy, therapy, counseling and coaching and other modalities are now becoming more accepted for support and the stigma of getting professional support is declining. In fact, people are wanting to learn more about themselves, and how to communicate better and this is extremely positive.
Professional coaching is now the 2nd fastest growing industry in the world today, behind IT. This indicates that we are wanting as a species to explore ourselves and each other more. At Loves Hidden Policy, it is our mission to help couples to develop greater levels of relationship intelligence, both with themselves and who they are communicating with and to succeed with love. Please reach out to us if you need guidance on how to succeed with love, or if you feel you would like to develop greater levels of relationship intelligence.